You know what I find frustrating? I am 20 years old, and I feel like when it comes to relationships I am more mature then most my age. I dated around, I have had crushes and feelings, all that crap. But really, all I want is to find someone, have a serious relationship, you know one that is actually gonna go somewhere. I always wanted to be that girl who gets married young, moves into an adorable loft in the city, and live happily ever after. Maybe with 2 kids. I don’t know, even the older guys I have met seem to not want the same things, even they seem relationship(ly?) challenged.
I also have a complaint, when did boys become the new girls? I mean that in the way that girls are famous for playing head games, not knowing what they want, stringing boys along - all that fun stuff. I find now that every guys I know is doing just those things. It is annoying, because normally I am not that kind of girl, and when boys do these things it forces me to bottle up and back off.
So anyways, note to all the guys out there reading this: Be straight forward, tell a girl how you feel because you might just be scaring her away from telling you, stop playing head games - they are not fun for anyone, and don’t be hot and cold - no one likes the menopause effect.
